Every year when I sit to do my annual reflection, I try to make sense of the flurry of events by revisiting my memories, seeing patterns, observing where I struggled and where I grew, and, more often than not, realizing how much I have to be grateful for. And without further ado, here are the most helpful 5 steps to guide you through last year's reflection:
Before I start, I get in the right state of mind by reminding myself to:
Enjoy the process. I find a comfortable seat, prepare my favorite beverage, and put on my favorite album. The right setting can make a big difference. Make it my time. Some years I fly through my reflections in one sitting, and some years I take more time, coming back over a few sittings. Every year is different, and so I remind myself that each reflection can be too.
Dig deep. I try to be honest with myself, even if it isn’t easy. The deeper I dig, the more I learn.
Be gentle. The past is the past. I observe and try not to judge myself too harshly.
Part 1. Look back and record the meaningful moments of the year
Look through your calendar, journal, and photos to recall and write down your Highlights (positive experiences) and Lowlights (challenging experiences). If you haven’t already been keeping a journal this can take the most time, but it’s a critical step in the process.
Part 2. Reflect on your highlights and lowlights
Highlights. What did you do? Where did you go? Who were you with?
Are there any patterns? Take a moment and be grateful for all the highlights you experienced.
Lowlights. In this rollercoaster of a year, it’s likely that some things didn't go so well. Reflect on what happened so you can find peace, grow, let go, and move forward.
Choose a couple of the most challenging Lowlights and ask yourself: Was this within my control?
If yes → ask yourself what you would do differently next time.
If no → like in the case of the pandemic and its continuing effects, ask yourself how you can find peace with the past.
Part 3. Reflect on six key areas of your life
Looking back, check in with yourself on the following key dimensions: Mind, Body, Soul, Work, Play, and Love.
Mind: When did you feel clear-headed, engaged, and intellectually challenged?
Body: When did your body feel healthy, nourished, and strong?
Soul: When did you feel at peace and connected to the world around you?
Work: When did you feel interested in and fulfilled by your work?
Play: What were some activities that brought you joy?
Love: How did you feel about the relationships in your life this year?
Looking at your responses above, what, if anything, do you want to change in the year ahead?
Part 4. The Hits of 2021
Wrap up with a few fun rapid-fire questions. Answer in just a few words...
Favorite Song(s): ___________
Favorite Book(s): ___________
Favorite Movie(s) or Show(s): ___________
Favorite Meal(s): ___________
Favorite Place(s) Visited: ___________
This year I was most inspired by: ___________
This past year in one or two words: ___________
Part 5. Looking Forward
Now take a few moments to look ahead. What are you most looking forward to in the upcoming year?
Reflection complete! We hope these steps are helpful in your reflection journey.
I know it can seem like a lot. But it’s worth the effort. The perspective and clarity that come with reflection have the power to change lives.
Wishing you many moments of clarity in your reflection!
Source: A step-by-step guide for making sense of 2021 / HOLSTEE.com
A step-by-step guide for making sense of 2021
from the authors
Jan. 03, 2022